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ok~ well... im not perfect but... i believe that its not ok to have sex even if its your prom night. god made sex for u to share yourself with the person that u are going to spend the rest of your life with~ AFTER YOU ARE MARRIED! wait until u are married, it will mean so much more to u and your spouse. it will be something very special that u will treasure for the rest of your life. just wait until u are married~ it will be very special. -- Lindsay, MD
You are never "supposed" to have sex. If you want to, fine. If you don't, that's fine, too. If any guy tells you differently, dump him. -- Jessi, Friendship MD
well, if your going out with the person, and you like them, go for it, but don't if your not goin out with them. thats what i'd do.... oh and if they make it sound like they will be mad if u don't, then tell them to f--- off, but if they leave it up to you, go for it! ;) -- Angel Baby, IA
Well hell......if it's against you're own values don't do it....but hey this could make you're grad night a hell of a good night. As long as you are gettin naked and doing the hanky-panky with someone that you have a relationship with.....i say do it girl!!!:) -- Baby Doll, Mactown, GA
well actually the sad thing is i actually wanted to lose my viginity on promnight i have always thought that. even tho i am not with ne buddy at this present tiem doesnt change ne thing. And yet now that i am no longer a virgin my ideals havent changed i will have sex on prom no questions asked!!! -- Jessica, New York, NY
Sex Is actually big deal, If you dont think your ready, Don't risk the chance of being hurt. It's a two way thing, and If you know your ready, but he isnt, DONT DO IT. ALWAYS remember RESPECT yourself!!:C) -- Britney, Scranton, PA
I think If you want to,do it. Don't feel pressured into doing it. But just make sure your ready to take the consequences if anything goes "wrong". -- Steph, TX
ITS YOUR CHOICE IF YOU HAVE SEX, BUT MOST PEOPLE f*** EVEN THOUGH THEY DONT WANT TO THEY DO BECAUSE OF ALCOHOL AND DRUGS THAT ARE AROUND ESPECIALLY AT THIS TIME OF YEAR. IF YOU ARE READY DO BUT IF NOT DONT BOTHER EVEN THINKING ABOUT IT. PEACE OUT !!!! -- Jea, Green Bay, WI
everyone should wait until they're married.. wouldn't it be cool if both you and your husband had held out for each other instead of screwing around with some other ppl other than your spose? the marriage would mean so much more. -- Unknown
I believe it's up to you nobody I mean nobody can make up your mind about what youy want to do. And I also agree it will make the night more fun and memorable but don't go over board and be a slut and make a name for yourself and just give up the butt to anybody make sure it's who you want to give it up to. That's what makes it nice! -- China, Baltimore MD
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It is okay to have sex when you are ready. I should be a mutual thing. Whether it is his senior year or yours, it is up to BOTH of you what happens that night. Don't ever think that just because it is your senior year someone should feel obligated to have sex with you or you should have sex with them because it is there senior year. Be true to yourself because it is the first step to being trully happy!!!!!!! -- Ahleshia, Rockham SDno!!!!!! so what its your senior year! that doesnt mean you go and get any guy to deflower you!you dont get all buck wild cuz its your senior year!what if you dont meet prince charming are you gonna have any guy to hAVE SEX WITH! -- Lee, La Habra CA
That is stupid...It doesn't matter if u are a senior or a freshman...If the time is right then its right...Senior or not -- Uh Uh, Mactown GA
Honestly I don't think you should...just to prove to others that just because it is prom, that you can live with out sex!!! -- Lee Ann, Owensboro, KY
Sex is okay anytime as long as you are ready and not being preasured into it. -- Tina, Corpus Cristi TX
No, you shouldn't have sex even if you are a senior. My boyfriend last year was a senior and i was a sophomore,and we didn't have sex because he was a senior. you are to wait until you get married...that is what the honeymoon is all about, so if you are a senior and you want to have sex, reconsider, it is not the cool thing to do,even if that is what you think -- Kim, Wabash IN
I think that you should wait until you get married because just think about it the way i see it is God put us here to charish our selfs and to have respect for each other, and if you have sex before you are married you are disrespecting not only yourself and your body, but the person you are doing it with! i think that having sex is a very big step an you should think about all of the consequences before you engage in sexual activity. I know that I might only be 14, but my parents go over this stuff a ot , so just think about it!PLEASE!!! -- Kelsey, SC
Its ok to have sex anytime, not just on YOUR senior prom nite. You shouldnt do it just cuz of that reason tho. Hell, if your a freshman goin to prom, have sex. If your a sophomore, have sex. If your a junior, have sex. Even if it isnt prom, have sex. Sex is a wonderful thing. ~Sex is like a colorful rainbow, Have a colorfu -- Meg, Des Moines IA
Sheesh, people! If you are absolutely 100% sure that you are going to marry the person that you are with, and that you are so in love that you wouldn't think of looking at another person, then go for it, especially if you're engaged. I've been engaged since last July and I'm lovin' every minute of it. We personally decided to wait until we're married, but the point is that you need to find someone you completely trust before you do something so intimate. -- Joanna, Niles MI
It is okay to have sex on prom night but if your just doing it cause you think your supposed to or because your date wants you too then i think it's stupid. I think you should only do it if you really think your prepared to do it and to pay the consecuenses if any. You should rally think about it. Sometimes your just so horny that you don't really care but, if you do well then DON'T FORGET TO USE PROTECTION! -- Ariana, Gonzales CA
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IF u like someone romanticly then go for it....BUT sometimes it can be even more fun to go with a good friend....then you can dance with other friends....and just not have to worry bout what your date is going to do..my best friend is a guy....we went to prom together....it was the best night of my life...we just had so much fun! and it was nice because i knew how he'd react to different things...and i didn't have to worry bout the whole sex thing....but i did spend the night at his house....jsut so we could talk about how much fun we had...so if u have a good guy friend...go 4 it! -- Cutie22, Silver Spring, MD
i would have to disagree because it is ok if someone asks you to prom and you are not going out with them. you can just be friends with that person and maybe something will happen prom night. -- Angie, Cannon Falls MN
Prom is supposed to be for romance so when you aks a girl its because you like her and so when she says yes you know she likes you. Not always, but mostly its like this. -- Jim, Corpus Cristi TX
No, you can ask your best guy friend or ask someone that you just think that you will have a great time with. If sex is all your looking for than go for that. -- Mallory & Leah, Regina SK
I know from experience that you should let them know from the get go if you are asking them to prom because you are romantically interested or just because you needed a date. Haven't you seen shes all that, Zack took his little sister, and I don't suppose that they were romantically involved. Take who you want just make sure that they understand how you feel too. -- Ahleshia, Rockham SD
Going to the prom to me is a very special night to spend with a very special person. Going with my best guy friend would be a dream come true because I feel really comfortable when I'm around him. I definately know he wouldn't do anything that I wouldn't want to. Every girl needs to go with someone that their comfortable around, someone that doesn't mind having a really good time. And that usually means going with a friend becauses friends don't mind having a good time. -- Dreamer, Statesville NC
This is not true. A lot of people got to the prom as just friends, so that they are not obligated to dance with just that person all night long. There is nothing wrong with going to the prom with someone you are not romantically involved with. -- Angel, Miami FL
I think that you can go with whomever you want to go with. You could have the best night of your life with the person you love or your best friend! If I didn't have a date I think that I would ask my best guy friend and I know we would have a blast! It would be great! And you wouldn't have to feel like you had to have sex with the guy....because he is your best friend and he is only wanting to have fun like you! :) -- Mandy, GA
PLAY HARD TO GET--- GUYS LIKE THAT if you try to hard and ask him, youll scare him off, ask some other hottie from another school and show him off... then at prom, flirt with ur romantic lover and ull win over his heart b/c hell regret not asking ya-- Gem, Los Angeles CA
Right...to the ppl making these comments, ur saying this bc u couldnt get a romantic date -- Penny, Aspen CO
I don't think you ONLY have to take them to Prom just cuz you like them romantically! I am taking my best guy friend this year to Prom with me! It is sort of a dream come true! We aren't involved romantically nor would we ever be, you just have to let that person that you are taking how you feel about them up front! Don't let them find out 6 months down the road that you liked them romantically and come to find out they are dating someone else, when they had the same feelings for you! -- Kimmie, Mobile IL
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I think that's bogus. When it comes to sex, for guys it is considered "scoring"..for girls, it means your reputation is about to go out the window. To me, personally, I feel that sex should wait til marriage. What if you get pregnant? Do you wanna be a mommy or daddy cuz you couldn't keep it in your pants? Think about it. STD's? Not so much fun, eh? Just for ONE night of fun, you can RUIN your life. Don't do it cuz everyone else is. Anyone can have sex. Even bugs have sex! C'mon! It takes a strong person to say no and wait. -- Someone Passing By, Somewhere IL
what kind of sexest world are we living in! personally peopel need to get a clue b/c as a feminest i will be sure to pass the word that htis statment is totsly unconstitional and that it should be taken out of the egotistical males minds!!!! -- Jess, NY
how can guys have sex if girls wait? thats impossible. and such a double standard at that -- Kayla, Dracut MA
i don't think thats right. well lets just say that i'm not !!!!!! -- Lichelle, Marietta GA
sex is good 4 every 1, thats life, deal with it on prom night. -- Lil Whodie, Grand Rapids MI
It's not the 1800s anymore, if you want to have sex then do it. But if you don't than you shouldn't be preasured into it. Guys are no different from girls because we all want sex. -- Mallory & Leah, Regina SK
Where did this question come from anyway? Anyone can have sex, whether female or male. Sex is not a game though, and whenever you choose to do it then you should render the consequences of haveing made the decision to "DO IT". Sex should be magical not obligated. When you are done you should feel good about yourself and the person that you are with. -- Ahleshia, Rockham SD
Thats a double standard. If you want it go and get it. -- Angel, Miami FL
That's bullshit! There is no double standard. If a guy has sex, then he can't expect his wife to be a virgan! I hate it how girls who have had sex are considered whores, but guys are patted on the back for getting ass! If you want ass, girl, get some! it's not just a man's world anymore! We are woman, hear us roar! -- Stephanie, La Grange GA
Girls and guys are different if girls have sex with alot of boys there are hoes and if boys do it there are the man.I girls want to have sex there should do what makes them happy don't do thing just because so one tells you it ok or fine. I know iam waiting to get married and be happy and have a child with some one i care for and they care for you. JUST BE HAPPY!!!!!!!! -- Christina, Brooklyn NY
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