First, I Just want to say Prom is going to be such a memorable night for everyone. My Prom was Da Bomb! Everything was perfect, my dress was the right color, my hair came out just right, my date was fun, and I even made court. What I didn't know was that my perfect prom was turning out to be a not so perfect night. One of my parents friends rented us a hotel for a group of friends and I. We were all throwin' back a few as we talked about what a great night it was. Then, after awhile the alcohol started to kick in.

Everyone was getting pretty wild and horny. We decided to play truth-or-dare (How Lame!) Everyone there knew I had a small crush on my date, and wanted to help me out. So, when I picked dare, they dared me and my date to go into the next room over and see how far we could get in an hour. They wanted to give me plenty of time with my crush. So, as we walked over to the room he was holding my waist, and I could tell he wanted me too. Yet I also knew our alcohol content was high. When we got into the room he sweet talked me and threw me onto the bed. I told him how I had a crush on him and he said he felt the same way as I did. We started to make out and things went from there. Then I stopped and just looked at him and smiled. Things felt perfect, like I always wanted them to. We started to kiss again and he started to try to undress me. I could hear all my friends in the next room yelling to us. I felt pressured and invaded.I felt his hands caressing my body and I knew what he wanted from me. I was a virgin and I wanted him just as much but it didn't feel special. Then everything happened so fast, we were both naked and he stuck it in me. I didn't want to say no, but inside I did. Our time was almost up, and it felt good an all but I realized he didn't even use a condom. ..I pushed him up to look at him and asked him if he didn't have one on, and I remember all he said was "Don't worry baby nothing will happen, I'll be careful". I trusted him. Then you all must know what went on from there. When our friends hit the door we got up, dressed, kissed one last time and went out. We didn't share with anyone what happened, we just sat there silent. I couldn't even run through my mind what had all just happened. We had a few more drinks and the night was fine from there.

It wasn't till next month when I realized I didn't get my period on the date I always did. I noticed as well I got sick a couple mornings before school. I just thought it was because my period was late. I didn't say anything to anyone because I felt akward. A week later I still hadn't got my period and thats when I decided to take a test. As I waited for the results to come, I called my date to tell him what was going on. He acted like he cared, even offered to come and wait with me. I said no though, I needed to be alone. I closed my eyes and just hoped that it wasn't positive, when I opened my eyes...I saw a positive sign. That is when my vision became blurry and I didn't know how to handle myself. I ran to the phone to tell him to come over, he sat there and helped me through it, and told me wouldn't leave me. Too bad when I got bigger and more people found out I lost him also all my other friends. Everyone thought less of me. He let me down prom night and now. Its been a couple years now and I got through it all with the help of my family and my few new friends I made.

But, my main point to all you girls is to be careful, if you decide to have sex prom night please make sure your date is using a condom, don't let what happened to me happen to you. Although, my baby girl is beautiful and healthy and I am happy, I still look back and see how my whole life was turned upside down for one night of fun with the "man of my dreams". Please think twice before acting. :)

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Finally, someone out there who puts a little truth behind the "If it feels good, do it" lie. But even condoms break, happened to me twice. Abstinence is best. -- Liz, Chillicothe OH

I feel bad for her but she knew she shouldn't have been drinking in the first place. -- Misty, Sevierville TN

Hey, what happened to you was sad, but it could have been prevented. This year is my 1st at Prom, so I hopw nothing like this happens to me. Be more careful from now on! -- Brittney, Sturgis SD

At least someone had the guts to stand up and tell other girls the stupidity involved with prom nite sex. I know itz hard to say no... itz hard when we desire it... but trust me, I believe in my morals... virginity is not everlasting, u've got only one. Be smart w/ it (JACKi) -- JK, Unionville ON

Do such stories happen in highschools outside the US? At least at my former school such things would definitely not happen. Then again i went to a christian gymnasium and have spent more time behind my PC then i have spent going out ... -- Eike, Netherlands

hiya! i just want to say that i feel for ya, as what happened to u happened to my best m8 and iv cn the pain she goes through, shes wiv sum1 nu now and he respects her for who she is and hes gr8 wiv the baby 2 hope u find sum1 to help u through thing. -- Lollie

Hey Hun...I am so sorry this happened to you. You never know who are the jerks, and who is sincere. That really sucks, and i give you props for not having an abortion, whether it was a possibility or not, that shows courage. Asd for your ex-what a dick...I hope that everything works out for you, and that you adn your baby have a good life and full of love. Godd luck! -- Mer

uh sorry u got pregnant and ruined ur life but how stupid could u b to not put on a condom - my friend got his ex g/f pregnant and had an abortion - at least u were start enough not to have an abortion but seriousuyl how can u have unprotected sex? -- Unknown

Hey girl! i am soo sorry! a lot of guys are jerks and u could do so much better! thats the saddest story but its partly sweet..he may have hurt u bad but u have a daughter who obviously u love a lot! congratulations on the baby! and im really sorry about ur ex! -- Stacia

Hi my name is Laquita all boys are dogs!!! -- Laquita

The girl that said that her man didn't leave her then, I guess your, but also stupid in the first place. Anyway I appreciate this type of information. And it's girls all the time showing up pregnant at my school. One time I was trying to experiment a little. And I thought I was pregnant, but I wasn't. I was jumping to conclusion, because I missed a couple of days of my period. I don't plan on having sex for my prom night, but I have been thinking about it now, because some people I know plan on doing it. Since I'm a leader and not a follower, I don't care, but they have put it in my head now. -- Unknown

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