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From Brandy in (sorry, can't tell you), AB

It was my big night of the prom and I went to go get my hair and makeup professinaly done and had to pick up my prom dress. In about an hour my date was coming to get me in a limo. When he got to my house he said "I was the most beautiful thing he had ever seen." I felt so good to have such a loyal boyfriend.

When we got to the school gym I found my friends there- Rue, Katie, and Jessica. The whole night was fun. I was dancing and so was everybody else, especially my friends and their hot dates.

There was of course alcohol there, which others were hiding, so we had a couple of drinks. After the fifth one we were all pretty drunk, so me and my boyfriend left. We went to my house and watched a movie, but then somehow we ended upstairs in my room.

Some stuff started to get HOT if you know what I mean. Well of course you know what happened next. Well the next morning he left early to go to his house.

About a month after, I started to get sick and everything so I went to my family doctor and asked him why I had been getting sick. He gave me a pregnancy test and there it was- I was pregant. My worst dream ever, at the age of 17 with a baby on the way.

I tried to talk to my boyfriend but I just couldn't do it. I felt so ashamed of myself and him. I didn't know how to tell my parents either, but about 2 months later I started to get pretty fat and finally I broke down and told my parents. They understood me, they got a little mad, well actually alot mad, and they said that they will support me, but that when I get a job I have to support myself. They also said that my boyfriend who got me this way has to help too.

Well that same day my friends asked why I hadn't been around lately. I told them why. I felt so much better for myself because they said they would help too. Well the only person I had left to tell was my boyfriend. Well I got to his house and there he was. When he answered the door I started to cry because I couldn't even look at him.

He hugged me and said it was all right and he asked why I was crying. I told him that the night we went to my house and went into my room and did something we had forgot to put something on him, and that I was pregnant now. He told he was sorry and would try his best to help.

But one day me and my friends were walking down by his house and we overheard him talking to his loser friends. He said that I was a slut and that he wasn't going to help me but leave me on my own. Well I went up to his door and knocked on it. When he answered I called him every name in the book. He just looked at me and so did his friends because they were all stunned about what I had just said. I walked away.

Well 9 months passed. It was the day. I went to the hospital and had my baby. It was a girl. She was the most adorable little thing I had ever seen. My very own baby I was so happy. She was 5 lbz 6 ounces. I named her Tori.

I had seen my boyfriend at the mall, and I felt sorry for the girl that was with him, but in my head I just laughed at her because I knew that her day would come too.

This is a True Story so don't drink til you're drunk and go sleep with your boyfriend unless you know that he really loves you with all his heart.


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i feel sorry for u but at the same time u should have been more responsible. To drink at yur prom then go have sex is not the best thing. having a baby at 17 can ruin your life. My mom knows people who had children at 16, 17, and so on and they have had a hard life. U r lucky to have parents that will help u in yur time of need. -- Not Telling

Sorry that that had to happen to you. But really I can understand what you are saying and I have a boyfriend that does love me and even though I am 16 now and he is 20, there was a time when I thought that I was pregnant. I told him and he said that he would be there for me no matter what and that he loved me and wouldnt leave me no matter what, and the best part is I know that he told me truth to me! I hope that everything is going well with you and your baby though, good luck! -- Krista

Thank you. -- Yvonne

I dont look down on you for getting drunk and having sex. i am glad that you are very mature about the whole situation. As for you ex-boyfriend he is an asshole and i hope that he will fall in love with a girl and her ditch him for being such and asshole. maybe that will put some sense into him. Good Luck with your baby girl. i just feel bad for your little girl that she has such an asshole for a dad. bye -- Crystal

I am so sorry that stuff like this happens to people. Especially someone like you, who, no offense meant, isn't really mature enough to deal with it. See if you can't even say the proper words for what you did, you shouldn't have done it. By saying, "When we did something, we forgot to put something on him" you show that there is no way you are ready. I hope everything works out for you, you're lucky to have such good friends, and supportive parents. Your ex (I hope) boyfriend is a jerk, he didn't deserve a goddess like yourself, or any other girl. -- Lily

I think it is so wonderful for you to love your baby and be able to be a good mother to it even though your ex bailed. He's just a pig like a lot of the other guys in the world. I hope everything goes great with you and your daughter! -- Ashley

hi , girl i am so sorry what happen to you.you should no that all guys are ass holes.they only want one think.that is to get some pussy.after they get it or u get nocked up.they will call you ever name in the book.everyone say we are sluty for slepping with guys.well in my minda the girls are all slutys whores .what ever you want to call them.they do go to bed with us too .dont they have to pay the constest too .i think they should too .it should just be the girl taking care of the kid.it doesnt take just one persion to mack a baby.it take too.you should be more careful.i hop next time you will find the guy of your dreams. -- Annie

well isn't dat guy's nature? i feel sorry for you. i would get abortion if i were you. -- Marty

your boyfriend or should i say ex- boyfriend is an ass. but good thing you left him. i hope you and your baby are doing well. and a note to girls who get pregnant at a young age, you are not sluts, you are a human;and humans make mistakes -- Kealy

I hope you and your baby are doing great. Listen to her she know what she is talking!!!! I was in the same place I she was but I gave my baby up for edoption -- Melissa

This story sucks. when i had sex with my boyfriend he suported me the whole way through and he didnt give a f*** about me. So the last little bit on this story is not true. So dont listen to what this story says. PS. when i had sex that night he rocked my world. His name is Matt Warkentin. -- Alex

no story to tell, in fact i can't even relate i'm just glad you decided to keep the baby there are alot of girls in your situation who would have done otherwise, and probably regretted it..... power to you and your beautiful daughter and thanx for the advice... -- Kadij

Your a stupid slut and i don't feel bad for you at all you wanted to have sex so it's your falt bitch -- Anna

I just want to tell you that I am glad that you decided to keep the baby. I know alot of girls wouldnt, and that is sad. Anyway, I am sorry about what happened with you and your boyfriend, but it is good that you realized the truth now before ya'll ended up getting married or something and him leaving you. Also, I am glad that you're parents were understanding and are willing to help you out. Not all parents would be great enough to do that. Congratulations on your baby girl and good luck! I hope you find a guy who deserves you and will love you and your little Tori forever. God Bless! -- Holly

Hey there... will am very glad that you went on with the responesabily that was given to u... -- Heather

That sux what he did to you, but you FORGOT about protection? damn if your goin to have sex, which is perfectly natural w/ your boyfriend, you cant just forget shit like that. But, as long as you know that you made a mistake, learned a lesson, and are actually happy with the baby you have, then its good you learned from your mistake. Its not your fault your boyfriends a dickhead. but a baby at seventeen, sorry that SUX. -- Nicole

I really love that story. Im so afraid to go to prom and have sex with my boyfriend because of the consequences that could happen, as they did in your case. I would love to have a baby with him because I love him and I know that he loves me too. He would never do anything to hurt me, and he would be a great role model but I still always have that doubt because I still want to finish high school and go to university.

you know what?? you don't need scum like your ex-boyfriend. He's a stupid little shit that should have taken care of his responsibilities!! I feel sorry for that chick thats he's with too because someday they are going to fuck and then he'll be gone when "problems" arise. Babies are miracles to me, and I think that they need both a mother and father role model in their lives. I hope that you find a guy that you deserve and that deserves you too!! -- Rachel

wow, that's harsh. I think you put up with his crap really well. -- Amanda

I just wanted to say that i am so proud of what you've done. I too was pregnant but I had a miscarriage. To me that was a blessing but I think that having a baby in my stomach even if he or she didn't survive it taught me responsibility. And yeah, to the readers being pregnant and knowing that your spouse isn't there for you hurts more than knowing that what you did was wrong. Yo go girl!! -- Shawny

Ya know everyone here is saying how sorry they are for you but really.. how sorry do you feel for yourslef? Not only have you broken many unwritten laws ( more like commandents) and had a child at 17 your poor daughter has no father, sure thats not your fault.. but who was the stupid freak who thought that it was cool to go off and kill brain cells with a " few drinks" and " fool around" i think the only person your fooling here is yourslef.. and the ONLY people i pitty out of all of this is your parents and their grandchild. -- kara

Im sorry that you had to go through this but it is not to late to turn your life around and give it to God! He is what will help you through this and he forgives you already for the mistake you made! -- Amie

I think that you made the right choice by keeping the baby, I know many girls who gets crazy at partys and gets drunk and just "looses control" and then wind up getting pregnant, and I think that if you're ready to open your legs then you're willing to take the consequences that comes with it. So I think you made the right decision. I wish you the best in everything. -- 24K, Columbus OH

yo this dope is whack! that is like no big deal compared to what happened at my prom. like dude i showed up looking as fine as a mother f*-*/-* when 10 other bitches showed up w/ the same dress on! but it was all like cool man. we just fixed our hair to look like the shit and had our pics made together. and yo, we did not drink till we were drunk and i did not get pregnant eithger piece out -- I'll Never Tell, Pilot Mtn NC

Hey Brandi! I think it is great how you stood up to what you did and that you were mature enough to handle what happened. Not like others i am not going to tell you that u should have gotten an abbortion or anything like that because how u took the consequences is great.I hope all goes great for you and your daughter. Have a great life, Lena -- Lena, Colbert WA

Hey, Don't be too hard on yourself. Everybody makes mistakes. Yea, to be totally honest, you make a big mistake that you're paying the consequences for. It's good that you're parents support you and love you still. It's also good that you're taking responsibility for the mistakes you made and loving and caring for your baby. Don't listen to the Bitch who said that you were wrong at the end of the story. Her boyfriend may support her, good for her. But there's so many guys out there that only care about sex. They'll pretend to love you so they can have sex but when something happens and they're supposed to be responsible, they're gone. There are so many horny basterd asshole men, I'm sorry that you got one and he left you when you needed him. He made the mistake too and he should help you!!! To that one Bitch, just because her boyfriend stuck with her, doesn't mean others will stick with their girls so she has no right to say that you're story was wrong! However though, you shouldn't laugh when you see other girls with him. No offense or anything, but why would you want any other girl to go through what you went through? -- Ashley

Hey "Not Telling", could you be anymore insensitive? Obviously Brandy knew it was wrong after it happened, and unfortunately for her, she had to learn it the hard way. Now she's trying to pass on her knowledge. Telling her that the baby that she has already had and loves is going to ruin her life isn't giong to make things better. Of course it was unfortunate, but she's trying. Give her a beak. -- Jessika, Phoenix AZ

I am really sorry about what happened to you. Alot of guys do that and my boyfriend tried to take control of me one night when some friends and us had a party and we were drunk. But i had read some of these stories and your was one of them. I want to thank you for giving me the extra boosted not to have sex. -- Ashley, MS

How stupid can you be? No offense or anything how could you forget to put on the rubber? If you ask me it was both of your faults. Yours for not making him wear the rubber, and his for not pulling out on you when he was chuming. Even without the rubber he could have prevented it. I'm glad that you didn't get an abortion cuase that wouldn't have been right. Hope you find a real man someday -- Brenda, Ft. Collins CO

I think handed the situattion very well You acted verry maturely. I wish you good luck and well one day your ex- boyfirend will have his turn to suffer because what goes around comes back around. I'm 16 and have never had sex with my boyfrien eventhough I love him very, very, much. I'm just not ready for that and eventhough i guess is hard for a guy not to do things like that he understands and I love him for that. Take care and good luck with your baby. -- Ariana

well im sorry to hear that this had to happen to u. i wish i could change everything for u. but sometimes u have to learn from ure mistakes. and it will only make u stronger and if he don't wanna help u raise your child then that is his bad because he will regret it in tha long run. -- Brittany, Houma LA

I'm really sorry to what happened to u. I can kinda relate. I was pregnant at 16. A couple months ago. Please do believe this story it does happen. don't believe Alex with her Matt Warkentin. Alex comment isn't really true -- Evelyn, San Francisco CA

Do not forget that the father of your baby is legally responsible for half the support of that baby until the baby is 18. Make it happen! Get a lawyer and make sure the paperwork gets done to make sure you get the court ordered child support. You need to protect your baby financially though I expect that your ex-boyfriend may not ever amount to much. But make sure your child is as protected as you can. -- Sandy, Silverdale WA

I just wanted to say that I'm sorry you had to go through all that... but it's a really good lesson not to get drunk on prom night!! Because things like this happen. I hope everything goes well with you and your daughter. You are lucky to have such supporting family and friends. -- Kristen

there's one thing that u have to do. both of you were irresponsible together,so not only do you and your beautiful family should help you raise your baby, take him to family court and put his butt on child support, we'll see what a man he really is, he will have to put his ass through school, and get a job to support the child, it's only fair honey...good luck crystal 14 -- Crystal, Miami FL

Hey... i think wot u did is very mature... i know dat if i got pregnant i might have had an abortion... as bad as dat sounds:( well i want 2 let u no da ur x is a low life scum bag pig!!! and i hope 1 day u meet sum1 who aprieates u for who u are -- Sally, Brisbane

All I can say is take care of your baby...do the best for your daughter...obviously the ex is a dick. Let's hope for your daughters sake that he stays away. I can relate to this story in a way. Mah boyfriend and I had been together for 3 years at the time when we decided to give one another our virginity...and well lone behold one month later I found out I was pregnant..by this time mah ex and I had already split...(personal problems before we found out about the pregnancy)...but when I did tell him he swore he would be there...and then he left me again..not a word..not a phone call..and then one day I started to bleed..I ended up losing my baby. the father started coming back around and then got mad and said I was never pregnant with his kid. I was only 15..it's been two years ago..and we have since gotten back together and are doing good..but since that one night when we made a terrible mistake turn into reality and then a horrible nightmare we have decided to wait til we get married. Love Bri -- Bri


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