Before you read this story, let me say why it's on here. It's on here because I personally don't agree with the morals it contains (yeah yeah I know, I shouldn't judge). Most importantly, I don't believe that, because you drink, you are free to do anything you want and you are therefore absolved of all responsibility for your actions. I also don't believe what Abby says, that "what happens on prom night stays on prom night." It doesn't matter what we do in this world, it all has consequences. Anyhow, here's the story. Feel free to comment on it, or even to comment on this comment if you think I'm too much on the rag. ~ Therese

i will never forget my freshmen prom. It was so awesome i went with this really hott guy who said that he wanted to have sex with me afterwards, i couldnt wait, he was soo hott, and i wanted him really bad. So we went to the dance and after that he had rented a hotel room(becuase he was 18). One of my friends's date had ditched her so she was really upset so i told her she could come with us becase my date told me that a lot of people were goin to be there. He was kind of mad that she was coming but i said that she could just join in on the fun. We started drinking, and after a few beers i was feeling kind of tipsy so me and my date started making out, and than my friend who was also getting drunk joined in, it was soo fun because i dont think about it, what happens on prom night stays on prom night it doesnt matter, i had the most fun i have ever had in my life with my friend and my date, of coarse everyone found out about it, but thats ok because now i can get any girl and guy that i want. I mean when you are drinking it doesnt matter what you do and you find out whta you are really like. I lost my virginity on prom night and i will tell you that i have slept with 13 people since than, 2 were girls if that counts. Anyway i say on prom night make it your best ever becasue it only happens once a year!

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Yea, thats nasty!!! Where are your morals? I know you was taught better. I'm 16, and my prom night is in about a month and its girls like you that motivate me even more to have the best "clean" time ever -- Shay, Luckyville

OMG! I smell slut in the air.Do you reliaze you could of gotten pregnant. -- Misty, TN

That is disgusting. I dont know how you can be proud of yourself and how you acted on your prom night. Also, the fact of how many people you have slept with. There is a word for people like you, its trash. By the way, what happens on prom night doesnt by any means stay on prom night. That one night can obviously change your whole life. -- Melinda, Cortland IL

Wow. You're a slut. -- Ace, AK

As to reference of the person loosing there virginity on Prom night and then sleeping with 13 people. All I have to say is I hope you understand that you are very stupid and STD knows no boundries and I know that sex, booze, and not caring leads to babies and babies lead to a pretty boring life. So enjoy your freedom now because what you did is wrong. I am a strong Christian and the price for loosing a precious gift like virginity will never come back. -- Concerned from Oregon, Unity OR

Omg!! Do u realize how bad that is!! I am fixin to go to my 8th grade prom in a few weeks and I know for damn sure I would never do anything like that! I do know that when your drunk you can lose control but what you have done is not right! You could get pregnant or have a STD! Do u even care?!? Well I feel sorry for all the ppl u have done something with b/c if i were them i would feel disgusting!! And I feel sorry for your family that has to be known as the sluts parents and if your parents dont see anything wrong with it then thats why america is so screwed up!!! You have 12 year olds going all the way and you know were they get it from people like YOU!!!!!!!!!!!! -- Beth, TN

OH MY GOODNESS!! I'm 17 and been to 1 prom already, and I definetly did NOt do anything like that! I'm shocked that she's so proud of herself, and sad. If she feels like sex is a kind of validation she has really big problems. You should never use sex, boys, girls, grades, anything as validation of yourself as a person, you'll never have any real fun. And you will be based on what everyone else sees, not on what you know about yourself deep inside... I hope that people like her can understand they have a problem -- Kelly, NY

hey, i just wanna say watch how much alcohol u do drink cuz the next day u'l regret everyfing u'v done believe me iv done it!! i can understand what u done but its not somthin id do so im not going 2 diss ya. just b carfully in future. -- Lollie

That kicks ass for u to sleep with women, lesbians are kool no matter what anyone thinks. -- Johnny

You're a lousy excuse for a human being. Do you have NO morals whatsoever? Or did your Prom Night really mean nothing to you? How disgusting... -- Kim

your a loser! that is some nasty iah that you did. im 18 and my prom is on may 17th. i know damn well that i wont do some nasty bullsh*t like that. why the hell are you proud of that. dont you know that people talk. that guy you did it with is thinkin the same thing we all are. as far as having sex and stuff with other females is disgusting. theres a reason why GOD made a male and a female -- Unknown

I don't think that this girl is a slut, or a whore. I think she did what a lot of us would do if we lost control of ourselves and, I'm sure it was fun. I am a virgin---not because I don't have sexual desires or because I have never had an opperunity to lose my virginity, but because I value sexual purity. When I do have a husband, I will be able to give *all* of myself to him. That, will be a truly fantastic night. -- Erica, 17, CA

ok first off, I also think that having more than one sexual partner at such a young age is not really right,that is my opinion not hers, so lay the f*** off of her, but I have also lost my virginity and am only 13...I am not a whore or a slut...It was last Spring with a 20 yr old guy....not cool...anyways, to all of you dumbass people who think YOU can control what others do and tell them what is wrong and what is right, you're fucked up in the head and obviously need to change some shit up in there, please don't listen to their ignorant opinions. I think that you should only have sex if 1~you are in a comitted relationship with a mutual love...or 2~you both realise that there aren't going to be romantic feelings involved, nobody is going to get hurt as a result of it and that you're strictly having sex...(and using proper protection) number one is much better for your emotional well-being, trust me...ahem, also to the dumbass who labeled themselves "Coko"....you need to shut up, you can not tell anybody what their sexual preference is, get out of the past, let people do what they want to do...it is their decision so once again LAY THE F*** OFF.....they can have sex with women or men you ignorant dumbass....ahem...what you have just singeled this girl out to be is just like saying that a whole race of people are evil and stupid....you can't say that, and you are just soo angering I can't even describe it to you...anyways...I just wanted to say that Coko is a dumbass mother***ing ignorant bimbo....and all of you out there keep doing what you wanna do as long as it's responsible and safe Love always;-), -- **~Karley~**

Well, I suppose its not your fault, being drunk can cause alot of things. I bet that most of the peeps reading your story have already lost it anyways, and maybe on prom night too. Don't worry, as long as you don't catch anything. -- Eva, ID

hey, dont listen to them. I dont think I gotta tell you to be careful you prolly know that. Haha sounds like fun! Wish my prom had been that fun all I did was fall down the stairs. Anyway cool that ur openminded and that comfortable with yourself and friends. Those people are probably just very closed minded. And even if you were a lesbian (not saying you r) its not theyr biz! Dont listent o em hun what u did is normal crazy teenage fun. Y not expairiment while your young and still can? Long as your safe about it it's your life, live it to the fullest. Sounds like you do too. Stay real. peace -- ~+~Scarlett~+~

Hey girl I feel like you do you and everybody else can mind they business the sh*t has nothin else to do with them so F*** them ya heard also everybody in their life does crazi sh*t so why sweat you I don't know, but for real keep ya head up and have fun doin you! -- BabyThug03, IL

how could u sleep with ur friend
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whore -- Jen & Ciara, NY

Ok! first off..no-1 has to be a little church girl to know thats wrong. Yes i will be truthful..it is your life, you have the right of doing whatever u want and can deal with the concequences! but my opinion is that u are CRAZY!! that is so gross..having sex with ur boyfriend is one thing but with another girl..?? thats just sick! if i ever got drunk i dont think id do that and if i did get drunk enough and i did that i wouldnt want to be alive after that. i dont see how u can do that but its ur life i mean do what u want! -- Not Telling, CA

You know what, im glad you had a good time! -- Steph, CA

listen i'm not gonna go all saintly on you and say what you did was wrong...but i have to ask you this one question, do you feel better about yourself now that you degrated yourself in such a way...be careful you don't want to get knocked up. -- Angie, NY

While this isn't something I would do myself, it doesn't give others a right to put her down like that. It is a real sign of immaturity. People choose their own lifestyles and their own decisions, and we're not in the place to judge. -- Anne, MD

I beleave you were just having fun and beening a teenager.i hope that people don't say bad things to you because your not a slut. you are just a teenager that was taking life to it's fullest. HAVE FUN GIRL!! -- Jessica, MA

Hey, as long as you had fun, I say, no regrets! I would probably do the same if I was drunk, and the moments came. All you people who put her down should f*** off, cause you're stuck up your bibles a** you bible worshipin goody- goody bitches. If you weren't so wrapped up in your bibles and preachers ass you would be getting you some too. Just cause you're jealous you ain't gettin none, doesnt mean you have critisize others you selfish a**es! And POO ON YOU TOO BI-YOTCH! -- Krissie, TX

ur f***ing disgusting -- Jamie

I just wanted to let all the people who read this know that more people than you realize are bi-sexual or have at least done something bi-sexual in their lifetime. I'm assuming most of you who read this are in high school and you are making assumptions about this girl being nasty and ugly. From my experience with these kinds of bi- sexual things, it is usually the pretty popular girls in school who participate. I find it very immature that you are putting this girl down for doing something you do not agree with. When you people grow up you will realize that you have to deal with all kinds of people and that the world sometimes isn't black and white. I hope that when you mature you will understand that you can't hate everyone who is different than you and that being or doing something differently isn't a reason to be slaughtered. -- Michelle, GA

OKAY, I JUST HAVE ONE THING TO SAY TO YOU LIL SKANKS THAT MAKE FUN OF PEOPLE FOR BEING VIRGINS AND GOIN TO CHURCH AND WANTIN TO WAIT UNTIL WE'RE MARRIED. CAUSE YOU KNOW WHAT? WE CAN BE LIKE YOU ANY DAY WE WANT. BUT YOU CAN NEVER EVER BE LIKE US AGAIN AND WE HAVE SOMETHIN MORE SPECIAL THAN ANY OF YOU. WE HAVE OUR PRIDE, OUR PURITY, AND THE SATISFACTION IN KNOWING THAT WE ACTUALY CAN CONTORL OURSELVES -- Ashley, NC

hey girl - thats kinda umm early but if u had fun and u made sure there would be no consequences you go! yea me and my friends "experiment" and shyt all the time - whats the big deal? -- GC Gurl

The downfall of our society is the open expression of sexual frustrations as demonstrated in this excerpt. The girl obviously has no self-respect nor does she have any self-control. He decisions were reckless and not well thought-out. I'm tired of the people who have commented before defending her action! This is inappropriate behavour, especially from someone who is not even an adult. We need to DEMAND some self-control in our children in order to preserve our society. Experimentation is something that should be done with a married couple who have pledged to spend the rest of their lives with each other. -- Heinrich, FL

Who are you people who judge this girl? especially those of you who just make ugly comments for no reason, if you don't agree with her actions sure thats your own right, and aswell can you express that discontent. But don't make harsh comments toward someone especially if you don't know them thats just harsh man. But haveing said that i personally don't see that as the best use of a prom night, but i'm a big fan of doing things just cause you can, so more power to ya! -- Bob

Hey, this is responding to Heinrich above. In Germany before 1945 your would have been a f***ing nazi man. "Shoulds" "must" and "demands" that's sick. I DEMAND that you become more tolerant! Bet ya can't, right, you sick sh*t? -- Stan, TX

What the heck is that! I don't know why girls these days are so freakin' perverted! The issue goes beyond just STD or morality... This is just plain WRONG Miss. Slut Head! I agree that sex is fun, and that sex is meant to be pleasurable. But sharing ur body with 13 ppl is just slutty, man... U'll have to be a slut all ur life, once u become a slut, cuz nobody, and I'm pretty sure, there's NOBODY, who actually loves u, will make love w/ u, since it shows that u show no dedication to sex and u never ever treasured sex ever in ur whole freakin' life! Sorri man, u blew it, gal... -- JKi, ON

Well, umm, yeah. You got down with your date and your best friend, woohoo for you. It's nice that you can be open with your sexuality and stuff. It's not fair that people are up your ass for having fun, all I have to say is be careful. Fun times kick major ass, but catching nasty STD's for them sucks cock. So enjoy, but be safe chick. And God is all good, but he won't stop loving you because you had sex with people out of wedlick, or with a chick. God isn't like that, God will love you no matter what as long as you believe. Trust... -- Kel, NY

Okay, kids, there's no need to attack the girl based on what choices she made. If you disagree with what people do, then you *discuss* it with them. Calling someone a "nasty slut" or a "skanky bitch" doesn't turn their behavior around, and it will more than likely make it worse. Also, judging people in such a harsh manner is unkind and obviously shows a blatant lack of maturity on your part. She did what she did. If she had fun and has no regrets, diseases, or children that came out of the deal, then that's all that really matters. Personal beliefs differ, and others need to respect it. -- Lydia, NY

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