Before you read this story, please note that sometimes it's hard to be impartial as an editor, and that I thought it would be better not to publish this one-- but then I thought about it again and decided I would publish it after all, if only to let you express your reactions (my own was... well, my own).

From Anne in (sorry, can't tell you), IL

Junior prom was one of the best nights of my life. Now, I know people are going to read this, and some people will think that my story is disgusting. But, go ahead and think that! I'm going to skip everything that went on at the actual prom, because nothing really earth shattering happened there. However, when we got to the hotel, that's when the adventure really began. First off, there was two couples, my best friend and I, along with my friend and her boyfrind. We got a hotel room, and we had lots of alcohol to get us through the night. We had a lot of hard liquor, but first we had a bottle of wine to have a nice toast. We forgot the cork screw, and decided that we would use the key to my date's car. It broke, thus making us stranded in the hotel. Well, we made the best of our time, by getting completly drunk and having secks with my date while the other couple had secks in the bed next to us. If you think that I've gotten to the weird part, you're no where near to it. After drinking a little more, my female friend and I were laying on one of the beds together and started to mess around with each other while our dates watched. We finally got half nude and after awhile, our dates decided that they wanted to have secks with us again, and we ended up sleeping with our own dates on the same bed. The rest of the night was pretty tame, and not really worth mentioning, but sufice it to say, it was a really weird, but unbelievably fun night!

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Hey I think what you did was totally up to you, I may only be 14 but I lost my virginity to my best friend (guy) when I was 13! when I was 14 I had a 3some with my best friend and my other best friend ( guy and girl)! I think wut u did was just experimentation and all you bitches that put her down, if your not lil church girls then u will experiment to! Prom is a great thing, wut u do to make it even more special is your kinda thing, and I think this girl had a blast by the sounds of it! I am not going to blast you by calling you a slut or a whore I am gunna say! way to go and have a great life cuz wut u did is wut I did! I think its great! -- **RIKKI**

Ok first of all, telling us about you doing something that you shouldn't be doing until you're married is SICK! Second of all, you need help! Because you having secks in the first place-not just with your date, but with your friend-is absolutely disgusting. It's to bad you don't have any maturity. I pity your mom because she's probably worried about you and you don't care diddly-doo! Poop on you! :-P

hope that your night was fun! as long as you are having fun never mind anyone else -- dez

You are so nasty Bitch. You should have kept that to yourself no one wants to hear that crap and if you call that a fun night I wonder what you call a horrible night you skanky whore. -- Grace

You are grrroooossss and NASTY -- Jennifer

U r a real slut and a lesbo eeeeeeeee! -- Coko

Hay girl, you are not a slut or anything. maybe you should be more careful about what you do. It all sounds like fun but it can be very dangerous too. Alot of people catch aids that way, so try to be carefull okay. "Also I think that you are just a little confused about yourself. God did not make us to be doing stuff like that. Although he forgives us because he loves us, he still doen't want us to be defilling our bodies that way. A good Virterous woman is one who can obstain from self control at all times, and doesn't give into temptation. But God is merciful to forgive us, thats why he sent his son Jesus to die for such sin, that you have done. Don't take this lightly because if you don't ask him to forgive you then where do you think you are going to go when you die. I'm just saying that I know how hard it is substaining from secks. I am 22 and recently got married, but now I know the difficulty of being married and having past partners. I ask God to forgive me and bless me after going through all that I went through, and he blessed me with a wonderful husband and a smashing daughter. I have a wonderful family and future and so can you. Try not to dwell on the things you have done, the pass doesn't necessarly make our future, God does. so choose to repent and turn away from being decieved and turn your life to Christ today because you never know when it will be to late. Believing in Jesus and God isn't a Way of life it is Life. He gave you life so don't take if for granted. I don't know you but I know God does and he loves you. Take care and please be safe. -- Love Rachael

GO GIRL!!!!!!!!! -- *michelle*

I can't believe that nothing that happened at prom was more exciting than the afterparty. I think your disgusting and prom should mean more to you htan another girl... i guess if that's what your into then good for you!---kristen

That is just sick and wrong! Girl, if you are going to have secks, please at least stick to guys! --Lisa

k-first off you are such a whore bag. I bet that you are so loose that it's like throwing a hot dog down the grand canyon. You prob. got green applesauce lookin' sh-- cummin out of your c--. I bet it smells like a scottish soccer player's nuts with ketchup rubbed all over them. your tits i bet look like cucumbers and your nipples are the size of SKOAL chew cans. oh yea your a gross skanky les-bo who should be in a porn with a dog. Ya f-- gang-green c--. and if you don't like this, you can come a suck my cows a--......BITCH -- Will H

nick is gay -- Mark

Yeah! -- Laura

Tell you what I don't know why you would do or tell anybody about your private after prom stuff. I personally would never do such a thing at such a young age but that's you not me. Hope you have an even better time at your senior prom and come to realize you don't need to do all that just to have fun. -- JC

You know what? You don't need to be a slut to have a fun prom. HAVE A GOOD ONE NEXT YEAR! I had an awesome time at my prom and I really don't think it is necessary to tell all about your les fest! SKANKY WHORE!-- Louise

why would u want to write what u did after prom att a hotel and how u went down on a girl your crazy and disgusting-- Beverly

WOWEE ZOWEE!!!!!!!!
YYYYYYYEEEEEEEEEE OOOOOOOOOOWWWWWWWWWW ZZZZZZZZAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!! -- Nick

sounds fun wish iwas there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! -- No Angel

hey, for all those people calling Anne a whore, get over it! don't freakin' comment about her being disguisting and a slut to post her after prom activities, b/c you are the one who got on the site and decided to read these stories. nobody forced you to go to this section, so if you don't like it, too bad. Also, i don't really agree with what Anne did, but i have to admit, it sounded kind of fun. yes, she should be careful but nobody should tell her what to do. She is not a slut because of what she did, i mean, she was drunk. haven't any of you ever had a little too much to drink and then gotten a bit crazy? these things happen, and well, if it feels good, then why not? Anne, i'm with you, spontanaeity is good and just because someone gets crazy for one night does not change everything about a person. i think everyone else is just jealous 'cause they couldn't get any at their prom. j/k. but seriously, sex is a part of life, it's natural and is a way people express themselves. and hey, if 2 friends feel confident enough to do that with each other, isn't it better than doing it with someone you hardly know? --Monica

hey that was soo gross!!!!! i really hope that you get a grip on life i mean another girl!!! ewwwwwwwwwww sick! and not to mention the fact that these little teenage girls come in here and read that crap! i can't believe u pu that sh-- in here! you are one nasty skank! -- CAROL H.

U R A SKANKY WHORE-PATTI

I'm not going to pitty you, sound like a scoulding mother or tell you about getting std's or pregnant, it's your life live it to the fullest even if you do, do some "fun" stuff. But i have to admitte wouldn't be nice if one day you got married and see the surprise on his face when you tell him your a virgin on your wedding night, But you'll never see that, you'll never see him smile in disbelief you'll never see true happiness.--- by the way all you sluts who call her a bitch, slut or whore are f--ing hippocrates like you haven't done any thing worse or haven't thought about this really "hot" guy in any way "you" are the people who make me sick who "are" disgusting --aka-- ~*taut-taut*~

YOU NASTY ASSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! -- porsche

You're not a slut or anything, you obviously had a great time and some wonderful memories of prom. You got your freak on and there's nothing wrong with that.* -- Angel Cutie

Ok~First of all its YOUR choice wether or not to have sex. But as a Christian i believe that sex is a gift to you when you get married. You were just abusing it. Taking granted of it. What would of happened if you got STD? Or if you would have gotten Pregant? HUH? Second of all Are You Crazy? How do you know you love that person? DO you actually know what True Love Waits is? IF you don't then it means waiting until your married to HAVE SEX!!!! OK? Because you don't know if that guy is just goin to USE you! I think you are a slut! I can't believe you did that! Do you know how GROSS I feel for you? Or for the PERSON you marry!?!?!?! what are you goin to tell them on ur Honeymoon night " oh i'm sorry baby but i've already had sex & your not even half as good as the person i had it with!" I know that when i get married thats the thing i'm going to look forward to! Why take for granted? its goin to mean so much to me when i have sex for the FIRST time in my life! But you? You won't have that feeling! I think that you need to think about what YOU did! Maybe peeps will learn from YOUR mistake. It was your choice but a WRONG choice. Think twice b-4 you have it again! -- Krista

yall shouldn't be doggin her out seriously thats what she's into well good for her. all the rest of yall some haters stop sipping on the hateraid and get into reality things happen and most likely you will do worse things on you prom night if not before. -- Annete

   Listen, Anne, just by saying you know we'll think this is "disgusting" kind of shows that you do feel a little shame about this. I hope you were using protection, and if you weren't, I hope you do in the future.
   To all those making obscene and rude comments - what's done is done. Calling someone a slut because she had a lot of sex in one night is not fair, nor does it help her in the least. As for those people making homophobic comments - I ask you to please refrain from passing judgement on people you don't know. Sex between monogamous couples who love each other is a beautiful thing - gay, lesbian or straight.
   To the people who run this site - please keep a watch on the comments here. I imagine I'm not the only one who has been offended by some of the innapropriate responses to these girls' stories.
Helena

EDITORIAL NOTE: As the people who run this site, yes, we are offended by many of the comments we post here. But in the spirit of free speech, we are not editting them for content. Only for profanity. If a comment posted here offends you, by all means, let us know! Thanks, Therese & Richard

you are my hero, that sounds amazing. I hope my prom ends up like that -- Robyn

I totally respect your decision I lost my virginity at my first prom as well. Totaly blast! We also shared a room with a nother couple and we enjoyed watching eachother and joining eachother! having a 4some is definately recommended for all of you people out there! Especially after lots-o-liquor! Make sure to bring lots of toys and makes sure you get some from the girls as well. -- Allen Scott

That was a wierd story an all but u really should of kept it 2 yourself .You should live your life the way u choose an all but I think that was too far and a little slutish.I just want u to know Im not a school girl and I dont expect myself to wait till Im married but sex isent somthing u should be bragging on or putting on the internet.It should be somthing special not something u tell everyone.U may not like my answer to your story but you should admit its true. -- Elise

DUDE, totally, a WHOLE bunch of unneeded comments by ppl who submitted them. first of all, YOU ARE NOT A WHORE! no one has ANY right to say taht to you! you are not gross or anything. i dont know what God meant for us to do w/ the whole sexual deal, if you think about it, He never really even said. so i am not going to say it's right or wrong, i believe in doing what you feel is right your heart. i personally have no problem w/ gay ppl. so im just glad that you had a totaly awesome Prom huney! and i really hope you are a little more responisble in the future i.e drinking so much. good luck in all you do and God Bless!:) -- Sandra

Hunny, u go gurl!! What do u look like? That must have been the funnest night ever!! Ugh, i wish i was that friend, 2 tell u the truth my prom was even wilder!!! Oh yeah, LESBIANS ROCK!!(bETH, jULIA, tESS) Love all ya'all gurlz, lick! -- Julia

all I have to say to this is what u do is up to u. no one forced u to have sex with ur friend or ur date. i just hope u guys used protection which none of these other rude ass folks mentioned. and to all of yall out there bitchn at her about putting her biz out like that no one exactly put a gun to ur head and made u read what was written. im pretty sure u read it on ur own like me and everyone else so ur fussin makes u look like a jackass. -- Tweety

I suppose that, since when you look back on it, you feel it was a good experience, there wasn't too much harm done. However, if you can't say to yourself, "I would have done the same thing without having been so drunk" then perhaps you should be more careful next time. There's a difference in doing something because you want to, and doing something because you don't know exactly what you're doing. I also agree that prom night should have been better on the dance floor, but then, I've been to prom too, and I know that doesn't always happen. It's not the sex that I would worry about, since you were close to all the people, and knew they were clean (you did right??) but getting so f--ed up with alcohol isn't good period. Drinking is fine. Getting a little drunk isn't too bad either, but so much that it alters your thinking can be dangerous, even among friends. My motto is: "everything in moderation." Try it, you enjoy life much much more. -- TJ-Florida

I think by you telling everyone what went on that night took some f--in balls!! As long as it was safe sex and you had a safe night and nobody got hurt i dont see a god d-- reason why it shoudltn of happened!!!Aight -- ~Rebecca

well.. i haven't been to prom yet, but when i go i want to have a fun night like yours! -- shannon

maybe you and me should hook up together than i could show you a good time, I loev girls, and i love eating them out. -- Alison

That's the kind of story you keep to yourself. I'm not going say "you go girl" or "repent, you're going to hell." I know my morals, and I see that you don't have any. I don't care what you do with your life. It's none of my business. So please keep your stories to yourself 'cause that was TMI. -- Jodie

just because u all dont agree with her choices doesnt mean u have to call her names. i personally think it wasnt a good choice but its her life and u gotta let her deal with it. u can share ur thoughts without name callin, i mean come on we're not in kindergarden n e more! -- Mystik Angel

First of all...all u girls who r calling her a slut and a lesbian r the real immature ones. you have no right to be making fun of her when all of u r just as imperfect as her. What she did wasn't right but, she's pretty brave if she decided to share what she did, and make herself vunerable to all your mean-hearted comments. Prom night is supposed to be a fun night, and what she did was her idea of fun so don't hate on her for that! -- *Vanessa*

Hey girl! Just wanted to let ya know, don't listen to the others... You were drunk and when you're drunk you can't control your self. And even if you could o well. People shouldn't be judged by that type of stuff. I'm fifteen and I lost my virginity last year (on prom night tho I wasn't at prom) And I don't have regrets (as of right now) If you feel comfortable doing what you did, continue to do it -- Erica

I think all those people that commented about how stupid and whore-ish you were shoulda scrolled down and stopped reading if they can't handle reality... what you did was and always is completly up to you...that doesn't mean ide screw around with my friend.. but who can knock it till they try it, and if they don't want to, then so be it, that's there decision, yours was to try it. and hell yeah screwing your boy twice and getting drunk it;s essential, but stuck in a hotel room all night, you shoulda been screwing all night... yo go girl... i give u ur much deserved props!! peace!! -- Kerr Bear

Hi I do not think you are a bad person or anthing at all like that. I mean you didnt really know what you were doing because you were drunk. I bet u regret it and thats the reason you put it on here so other people will learn from your mistake. I hope all of you reading this does. I also totaly agree with Rachel you can be forgiven of what you have done and move on and turn away from those actions. Im getting ready to go to my Senior Prom and I am still a vergin. And you know I am very proud of it too. I have had many many chances to ruin it and i didnt. God has helped me and I know he can help you :) -- Brittany

I wonder if your for real or just making stuff up for attention, because why else would any one ever put some thing like that on someone else’s web site. -- Liz

i hate to see what your family life is like -- Ska

comments: ok, i think it is totally rediculous that you people must come on to this website and read stories about people who are trying to help you out with your descisions, and then comment and say they are bitches and sluts and whores. that is rediculous and fully immature. there is nothing at all wrong with what that girl did. you must understand, she was drunk, and she was having fun. you know you would do something equal or worse than that if you had the influence of alcohol in your system.. i just think it's great that they all didn't get drunk, then pile into the car headed for certain death. you all need help if all you can say about someone trying to help you is "you're a slut"... you are the sluts. -- Anjel

Look girl... honestly what you do is totally up to you and I give you props for having the balls to share that story. Maybe the problem of all these other girl's is that they wanna be experimental but are too afraid of what their little friends will go off saying about them.. What you do is totally up to you .. and don't let anyone tell you different. If you enjoyed it, then who gives a damn about what other people feel. -- Danyell

I am in England and my prom is coming up in July. The thing is, I don't understand why you want to go to one of the best nites in the year looking your best ever and then ruin ure appearance by doing something completely sluttish. If anyone did that over here they would get ripped for it for ages. I don't know why you are proud and trying to be all influential. You get as pissed as a fart, ruin ure make up, hair and take off the lovely dress uve been planning to wear 4 a year and make ureself look like a complete dog. I won't wanna take any of my outfit off on prom nite as I think it is one of the only nites u will look like something from a fairytale. -- Powerhouse

What ever floats your boat!!! ~~~Katie

Your sweet I should try that -- Shirly

I think that it was good for you editors to put different points of view. It is too bad that not all people think the same way. I think it would have been so so much more special on your wedding night or with someone that you really cared about. I just hope that you ask God to forgive you so you can be "reborn" Jesus died for us just for these very things just think if he didn't all of the sins that we have made in our life will have never been forgiven. And everyone would go to Hell. I hope that people have learned from your mistake and will think about the consequences that could happen -- AJ*

Hey...I think that what you did was VERY gross, but I know that it can be very tempting (not the whole girl thing) but the guy thing. I believe that you can have fun without doing the whole sex thing, especially with a girl. Have a nice day. -- ~Kara

I can't believe you actually told that story, but hey if that's how you get down then more power to you. -- Nanette

your nasty ! -- Delaney

think if you had fun, then who cares about anyone else. -- Lisa

You are a nasty, triflin chick you need to get your a** whooped. Do you know how many damn diseases are out there that you could have caught while your'e laying up in bed tryna to do it with anotha girl? Yeaah B***h your'e nasty. (But if you like it like that, do what you do) -- Lvhr

ya know what? she's not a whore just because she did something she wanted to do. In this society, its horrible to think that someone is a "skank" or a "slut" just because that person did something with another of the same sex. stop harassing the poor girl just because she's open minded, and not afraid to try something fun. -- Jenn

Ewwwwwww! that is so nasty you are a whore les. -- Gennifer

Hmmmmmm.....It is obvious that you have no kind of self control, due to the fact that you drank until it led you to indulge in such (in my veiw) disgusting and degrading things. I won't call you a slut or a hoe cause that's petty, but I am 17 and I am not a virgin. I gave it to my 1st love at the age of 16. I know what sex can do to you. I just hope it does not take somthing devastating and horrible for you to realize that you are worth so much more. If you don't respect yourself, who will? There are other ways you can have fun, and feel good afterwards instead of crazin out and being left feeling empty and cheap. "You'll learn!" At least I hope you do! -- Fah-Fah

That would be a cool story if you were a cool person. But the way in which you posted it on the internet leads me to believe that you're an attention deprived, toughie hootch who chokes on CAQUE at every interval. I can't believe you "messed around" with your friend! Lol.....that is so f--ing lame!!!! -- Misty

Hey Girl, I think you should be careful by doing that!! you can get herpes and all that bad stuff hey girl i really don't care about your life but i will tell you one think if you do that again used protection i mean anyways if you like it well go ahead and do it but that's so nnnnnnnnnaaaaaaaaassssssstttttyyyyy! hey girl i think you are such a lesbiana you know that so aren't you embarresed to tell us all that crab!!! please if you are gonna put a shit like that put a cool story not a disgusting story!!!! laters oohhh remember used condoms!!!! have fun!!!! -- Brenda

One day, you will look back on your prom night and wonder "What exactly was so fun about that?". Until then, more power to you. I wasn't there so I wont share my opinion. I will say that all of the people who made those evil comments should learn some tact. -- Yvonne

Hey, I think you're really brave to admit to what you did. I don't agree with you, and I plan on waiting until after I'm sure I'm with the perfect person, but I also REALLY admire you for admiting to being with another girl. See, to me, that isn't a bad thing, some of the best relationships are same sex. You are truly brave to but up with all the junk people are going to give you for it. But the truth is, the people who say that, only say it because they are afraid. Afraid they might have feelings for people of the same sex too. No matter what people say, the people cussing at you are the immature ones, and you, for being able to admit what happened and still love yourself, are the mature one. What you did was dangerous, but if our happy, then GO YOU! -- Lily

Ok, 1st of all everything you said was totally disgusting i mean it's your decision to have sex and it's your decision as to who the partner is, but seriously don't you have more self respect for yourself than to have sex in front of other people and then be watched like your some kind of dog by 2 guys that are probably not in it for love or meaning of a relationship but just for nookie! I'm sorry but you seriously need help if you actually enjoyed that! -- Ashley

All of you should be ashamed of yourselves. You preach to this new womyn as if she is a child of Satan, but what you creationist slags don't understand is that we are all daughters of Lilith. May science and libidinous delights live on! -- Jessica

The story you tell isn't all that shocking. As a seasoned chica I've learned that stuff goes on when everyone who's around is not in their correct minds, and yes that's no excuse, but this story isn't that bad. Okay, maybe you regret what you did and that's fine, but maybe you don't regret it, and that's fine too. It wasn't a HUGE social disaster, it wasn't in front of a million people, and I'm guessing it probibly didn't come back to haunt you. To teh religious ladies who wrote negative things: It's called life, and in life you learn from expreeance. Get out and live and you won't see that this was the ultimate sin. (And yes, I'm straight but I have friends who rn't and they eat/sleep/drink like you and me, just cause they don't have sex like you and I might, don't pass judgement) -- Kimmy

ok..i'm not saying what you did was right..and i'm not saying what you did was wrong..i'm just saying that its up to you.and everyone who is dissing you and calling you names need to mature and grow up and not throw anything else into it...i lost my virginity at 16...i'm glad you had fun at your prom -- Marie

While I don't know if I would do what you did, sober or trashed, I think that what you do is your business and no one else should have any sort of comment about what you do except you. Now, while I think that, I also think that if while you might be proud of what you did and may NOT care what people think, I don't know if it was an awesome idea to put it on here. But whatever makes you happy makes you happy! And to everyone who calls this chic a whore or a slut--im sure you are no where near precious and pure yourself, so keep your shit talkin to your damn self. -- Erin

Hell I think what you did was like awsome!!! I mean i`ve never actually had sex before but still what you did woa it was really cool i think and it gave me some ideas for my prom night! thanx a million!!! lol U r soo coool! and definetly not a bitch! -- Holiee

God created man and woman. His intentions were male and female, not female, female and male. This is obvious by our reproductive organs. Sex is a not only a gift from God, but a priveledge and something sacred that is reserved for marraige.
1 Thessalonians 4:3-5: "God wants uou to be holy and to stay away from sexual sins. He wants each of you to learn to control your own body in a way that is holy and honorable. Don't use your body for sexual sin like the people who do not know God."
Yes, I very much understand when people say that it is hard being a hormonal teenager. But as humans, we have a concious, and we must not let the temptation win. It is a battle, but with God, you can overcome the urges. -- Martha

Ok well first i wanna say "You go gurl!!" I probly would have done the same!!! I personally think doin all this shit iz FUN! And i dont realy care if pplz think im a whore slut whateva! cuz i enjoy what im doin and no1 can stop me from doin sumthin i luv! so rite on gurl!!! -- Rachel

ur nasty -- CC

you go girl that sounds like a fun night! I think I'm gonna do something similar to that me my boyfriend and another couple already booked a hotel and we al decided that we all wanna have sex with our dates and me and mr friend ( girl) decided it would be fun to have sex with eachothers dates also. -- Samantha

if you don't regret your choices then i think it's great. everyone has there own personal opinions and values. just because some people wait until they're married doesn't mean you have to. just have fun and listen to yourself and no one else. but, you do have to keep in mind 3 big things: STD's (SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES).... PREGNANCY ... AND LAST BUT NOT LEAST AIDS. just be carefull and take care of yourself and your partner(s). and always consider consistant and proper use of condoms. have fun and always experiment... you only live once!!!!! -- Angelie

I think what you did was perfectly fine. I mean, you were drunk, I can't blame you for that. If you thought it was fun, well, it probably was. Some of these jackasses have not expiremented sex like that,especially if they would've liked it,so they should'nt call you a slut. U ROCK -- Ahlee

Hey, gurl, u rock. I would a done that too if I was with another couple. ONLY if I was a lesbian drunkie like u. But, that's just me, so, yeah. Obviously u can tell I agree and disagree with u and ur damn 4sum. I dunno what else 2 say, except 4........I WOULD LIKE TO TRY THAT SOMETIME. It's kinda r-rated though. Yeah, I'm indiscisive. -- Lana

First off, F- all of you who put this girl down. You guys say she has no maturity... look at you, you friggin losers! How mature are you to say all this crap to her! Second, I am not a virgin, to both guys AND girls. And I say that if it was enjoyable to her, then you go girl! *mumbles under breath* stupid idiots.... Sorry ^^V. I just hate to see people do this. Esspecially those have NO BRAINS! -- Star

well, just to start off...i am one of those church girls. Now, well i just wanted to add to everyone elses comments. I am not a virgin but i do know that what i did was wrong. If you think its fun to have sex and to share partners so be it. But when the time comes to take respomsibility towards your own actions than dont blame anyone else but yourself. I was pregnant for three months and my partner in forinication was just a friend. He said he would be there, but he kinda wasn't. When the time comes to be a father or a mother, you can't run away. It was the most terrifying experince in my life. Yeah, the sex was awesome but the babe that came with it. Not even worth it. I prayed for repentance and obeyed the word of God, and to those who dont belive, this might sound weird but I said,"Dear Lord, if I recieve my period this week I know for a fact that you heard me and that you have blessed me with no baby." The next day sure enough I wasn't preagnant and I had my period. So, having sex, not even on my mind. If the guy wants to have sex, I think of it as this, he wants to have a baby with me. -- Shawny

I think that everyones comment was just hasty. It was prom and of course you are going to get excited and get into experimenting. Its not a bad thing that you started messing around with your friend, although it would be sort of weird, but I have a friend that I can just be completely weird around. I think its gross that you would have sex in the same bed as another couple....that is just wrong. Sex is personal between two people, and if you guys cared that much for each other, than it could wait. I know that when I go to prom, I have things that I want to do personally with my date, and I will be in control of my actions. I just think that you need to be in more control of what you do....unless thats what you like. Theres nothing wrong with what you did if you have no regrets about it, but if you do...than maybe you should think before you act next time even though it was a very special day. -- Misty

What you did was wrong. You lost control over yourself. You are not any of the things that those girls said. They don't know you, so they can't make a judgement on your character. If caught in the same situation again, would you do it? It sounds like you didn't even know these guys, which is never a good thing. They could have done some pretty bad stuff to you and you wouldn't have even known it. Life isn't one big party. Neither is it a game. I'm not one of those church-girl bitches like mentioned above, but you need to re-evaluate where you are right now. If you really think about it, those church-girls are probally better off. They don't go through the heart- ache that we do when some jerk dumps us after screwing us. Will H. sounds like one of those great guys. Why in the heck is a guy giving us advice anyway? What does he know? Will, go hump a dead cat. You have no business telling her off like that anyway. Come on! You're just a dirty- mouthed bastard anyway. This isn't a porn site, you know. Get off. -- XGinkr

these comments are making me mad... you people need to leave the girl alone. She only had sex with one guy, and experimented with the girl.. First off that doesn't make her lez. and second, mind your business even if she was the one that told her story.... -- Baby, CA

yo before you keep having sex and telling the world about learn how to wipe your ass little girl!! your only 14 yrs old and already opening your legs to people! the only reason he probably took you the prom was to get some cause you are obviasly a slut!! -- Jindy, FL

gurl that was nasty but it's that's you and if you feel that you had a fun night then you did and never let anyone bring you down because of that night -- Unknown, FL

While I think you could have been a bit more discrimitory about your night, I can no longer offer you advice because the mistake is over and done with. I do not agree with what you did, but it was your choice and you had every right to make it. I am very sorry you made the choice, because you didn't make it with a clear head; you made it while intoxicated and you weren't thinking clearly. I am eighteen and I understand all about desire and while having sex on prom night was your choice, I wish you could have made a clear, conscious, informed decision. -- Eternity, New Bern NC

Your story was truly unbelievable. You and your friends re pretty wild. However the fact that you and your friends had a big ass orgee after prom is not the thing that surprises me. it's the fact that you could be so immiture as to think that it was cool till you just had to broadcast it to the entire internet. I'm 17 and I can't wait till June to go on prom. Prom is the biggest night of a girls young teenage life and for you to go and ruin it with such a sluty act of lust shows just how gullible young girls can be. One day you will see your mistake and I only hope you can learn from it. My thoughts are with you. -- Detasha, Chicago IL

That's not too bad, as long as you don't make a habit out of it. I've been in that situation before, and I can understand your actions. Hope you had fun and that you haven't gone on to be a slut, you seem like a nice girl. -- Ace, AK

Well first of all, i think wht u did was nasty, but then again it was ur choice and u were drunk. 2 i think *rikki* is a real slut becuz losing ur virginity at 13 is wrong and then having a 3some? ur still young and u go out and have sex did u use protection? even if u did use protection u may have still gotten hiv or stds. I myself am 13 goin on to 14. some girls in my class has lost their virginity and one thought she was pregnant everyone calls them hoez. that doesnt matter wht u 2 did was wrong and ur juss a slutty hoe -- Shirl, NY

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