Ok. My prom night SUCKED!!

I was a freshman in highschool and I was going with my boyfriend Daniel who was a Senior. I thought I loved him. I thought he loved me. We had been going out for 6 months. And I had the perfect dress. It was black (black looks good on me) and sleeveless and he had his tux and he looked so cute. Well the prom was fine I guess.. we danced all night long and he was kissing my neck all night and junk.

Then after the prom... Our friends were all going back to a hotel. I didnt wanna give up my virginity that night. I was only 15. So I told Daniel. And he just said it will be ok. That he loved me and blah blah blah. Then the next thing I knew he was all over me in the hotel room and we were alone. I didn't know what to do. I told him to get off me and he stopped and looked at me. He said that if I really loved him I would do this with him. And I said flat out that I must not have loved him then b/c I didn't wanna do it. So he got all mad at me and grabbed my arm and dragged me out of the room and drove me home.

The reason I say that my prom night sucked was b/c I couldn't trust Daniel after that. And our relationship went down hill from there. We broke up 1 month after prom. And I hope that the next prom I go to doesn't end up like that one.

Girls make sure that u set down the rules with ur b/f or ur prom date. Don't let him do anything u dont feel comfortable doing b/c u will regret it ur whole life.

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u did the right thing by not falling into temptation. what a jerk for sayin if u love him then u will sleep with him. You go girl. :) -- Unknown

It is so awesome that you were so strong and had the courage to say no. Theres not a lot of people who can do that. Now youll get to (or have already gotten to) give your virginity, which to me is soo special, to someone you really care about and you know will care about you. You are an awesome chic! -- Heather

You go Girl! The world needs more people like u -- Yvonne

i just started going out with a senior and i'm a freshman. thank you for that story b/c...haha it makes me realize that i need to set down my rules. -- Kate

Go you! He was a jerk and didn't deserve you if that how he was going to treat you! Just keep your amazing self confidence and always follow your heart and you'll be the freatest all through life! I hope someday you find your perfect guy! -- Lily

Darling, sounds like you've got a bad case of "Christian Values!" Come on, wake up to your lascivious sexuality. I know it's in there. -- Jessica

I'm so sorry that your prom turned out bad because Daniel treated you that way. After I read your story, I just shook my head in disbelief; thought to myself, how could he do that? Just doesn't make sense. -- Eric

Out of all the stories, your story had the best info. You made clear that you should stick to your decision not to have sex. We are all powerful people, but we can still be manipulated by others-your choice was great. And don't worry-there's gonna be more parties or proms, at least you didn't do something that was life altering. -- Hanna

I'm sorry he treated you that way. After I read your story, I just shook my head in disbelief. -- Sara

I'm sorry you didn't have fun at that prom, but you go girl! You told him no and didn't give in, you're really strong for doing that, and I admire you. -- Becca

Hey I thought what you did was incredibly smart. You shouldn't do things that others tell you to. Stick for what you believe in is totally awesome! There should be more girls like you in this world. Remember girls, Self-respect is more important than you think. -- Iris

Hey sweetie... just read your story and i think you are the biggest wimp in the world. You should have gone for it. I did my freshman year. And sweetie let me tell you, it was the best night of my whole life. Every since then, its an every weekend thing (sometime during the week) for me. So think about that okay!!! Bye sweetie!!!!! -- Brandie, Panama City FL

It is so cool to be able to have control over something like that keep it up and dont let anyone stand in the way of something you want. -- Jazmine, Sioux City IA

Sorry that your bf was such a jerk. But sometimes that's just the way they turn out to be. Sex is a big thing, but really it's not all that life altering. If your smart about it and use something and are careful, there's less worry and really I think people put tooo much stress on each other when it comes to sex. But what you did was right for you and that's a good thing. That's all that matters! -- B., Edmonton AB

Im so happy i read your story, im 15 and imagining that that could happen to me is just plain scary. You have so much self-confidence and dont let any guy talk you into anything! -- Kimi

Hey! what u did was real smart..and its good u did that, because u never know it could of been worse and could of gone farther than it did and thats good u told him that. obviously u can do a lot better..its better to just save it for one person u really care about..hope ur next prom year is better! -- Stacia

This is exactly why I think it's stupid for a freshman to go with someone older, when you're that young, you don't understand "love". I think it's ignorant to say you "love" someone in high school for most people because if the guy says it first and within a few months, he's lying to get you to have sex with him. When you break up, he'll do the same w/another. If you're a chica, constantly be in control. I'm sorry this happened to you, but you should've been in control. This story is too common these days, which is a shame. -- Erin

Good for you! Any man who tries to take advantage of a woman by screwing with their head is no man at all. I'm glad you had the courage and guts to stand up to him. -- eternity, New Bern NC

you did the right thing girl! that teachs you never to trust a guy!! -- Jessica

I think you did the right thing because, if he loved you he would have understood that you didint want to do anything with him! -- Chelsea, Glengarry

Amen, sister! That's the way to tell him! :D -- Tiffany

I'm sorry that ur night went so badly, but if u had given in and did something u didn't want to do, it would have been even worse. At least now u can look back on the night and see that, when truly tested, u stuck with ur morals. Many girls aren't this smart. It's really encouraging to see others stick up for themselves, even if the results seem less than satisfactory. I'm so proud of u! -- Sarabeth, MO

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